Why the Traveling Princess?

The princess reference is not what you are probably thinking it is. Remember the old fairytale about the princess and the pea? A pea was put in under the princess’s mattresses and her bruises the next day confirmed she was a princess. Well, it turns out if that is the test to confirm “princess-hood,” then I am definitely a princess. I used to be able to sleep deeply anywhere, any time. But…. when I had kids, sleeping deeply was over. And now my kids are grown and in college, but I still don’t sleep well. Let’s blame it on peri-menopause. Hot flashes mean I need to sleep in a VERY cold room. And, I’ve become very sensitive to every wrinkle in every sheet. I can’t sleep if I don’t have a cover on me with a bit of weight (but definitely not a weighted blanket). I can’t share covers – I’m told I steal them and “burrito” myself in them during the night, so my husband is cold and blanket-less. Any noises definitely wake me up. Changes in the lights wake me up. And don’t even get me started on the “right” pillow. I’ve bought and tested at least 17 different pillows, most of which could not be returned. Now, I’ve got a better pillow menu than any hotel in town. But sadly, I’m still in search of my old, perfect pillow. In short, I’ve become like the story-book “Princess and the Pea,” which my husband calls me all the time. I’m not fussy about too many things in life, but sleeping is critical to keeping me pleasant to be around. And my sleep scenario is tough to get right. So, when we retired and wanted to travel a lot, I was scared of moving from hotel to hotel or Airbnb to Airbnb. Our solution to my ridiculous sleep requirements was to find an RV where I could control the bedding and temps, and it would be somewhat consistent night after night. So, this was the start to our European RV adventure.

Monday, September 29, 2025

Some cultural questions


 So after several weeks in this region, we can see some similarities between Spain and Portugal and some differences too. And there are of course big differences between Spain/Portugal and other counties. 

We’ve noticed that people in this region (Spain and Portugal) enjoy life a lot. Probably more than even other Europeans who also have mastered taking breaks to enjoy life. The daily siesta time seems to be a good way for them to escape what must be really hot temps in the summer (it’s been mostly between 65-75 for the highs since we’ve been traveling). We wondered if the siesta might be a bit seasonal but it doesn’t appear to be. 

But we’ve also noticed differences between Spain and Portugal in their time off work patterns. For you researchers reading this, I’m about to heavily generalize what we’ve seen and experienced - clearly it won’t hold true for all. We are holding the belief that the efficiency of Portugal must be relatively low. However, this appears to be balanced by the Portuguese being very happy people. We’ve seen some store hours to indicate that some people start work at 8 am (usually grocery stores and places where there is a need to have employees at work standardized hours). But we’ve seen more places that have opening hours at 10am (any sort of antique store, tourist store, clothing stores, tours, landscapers, construction workers, etc.). But then, there is a mandatory coffee break at 10 or 10:30 where they either close down or just disappear for 30 minutes to an hour. Then they work until lunch. For most, lunch in Portugal starts around 12 and ends about 1-1:30. This lunch break is later in Spain, starting closer to 1 or 1:30. And we didn’t notice the overt and long coffee breaks so much in Spain. Then there is the afternoon siesta time where everything closes. Grocery stores mostly stay open but that’s about it. The actual closing time is a bit of a mystery to me. Some just close after lunch. Others put in another couple of hours. But most stores open back up at 5 and stay open until 8 or 9pm. Except restaurants that are open from 11 or 12 until 2. Then you can get cocktails at some from 4-6 or 7. But most don’t open back up for cooking until 7pm with the biggest crowds coming in at 8ish. In Spain they don’t reopen at all until 8. So for anyone wanting to find a 6pm dinner, forget it. But my point of all this isn’t to talk about only food. It’s that we’ve noticed a definite lower level of working hours in Portugal vs other countries. I don’t know what impact it’s having on their productivity, but I’m guessing it is also lower. But every single person we’ve met in Portugal is super kind and appears happy to try to spend a few minutes talking to us. Sometimes you can’t get them to stop talking. They smile a lot and try to practice their English skills. And those that don’t speak English, tell you something in Portuguese with a big smile. They are genuinely happier than people I’ve met in any other country. So it makes us wonder what’s the right balance? Is more productivity better or more happiness?? We don’t have an answer to this but this bus perfectly summarized what we’ve seen here: 


SERVICE OCCASIONAL


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